Talking Points for Marriage Equality:
Countering the Opposition
The
proposed amendment to the North Dakota Constitution reads:
"Marriage
consists only of the legal union between a man and a woman. No other
domestic union, however denominated, may be recognized as a marriage or
given the same or substantially equivalent legal effect."
Polygamy
This
argument was used against interracial marriages also.
There is
no push to legalize polygamy in those countries that have same-sex
marriage such as the Netherlands.
We are
not advocating polygamy. We are advocating for the same legal rights as
two consenting adult heterosexuals enjoy.
Polygamy
was practiced in the Old Testament.
Children
1.7-4.0
million GLBT families
5% (at least)
of American families are GLBT families (3.3-3.5 million)
8-10 million
children live in GLBT families
6-14 million
children have at least one GLBT parent
Children in
lesbian families are less likely to conform to sex-typed cultural norms
Children in
lesbian families show no differences in psychological well-being and
cognitive ability
Choice
Even if
sexual orientation were a choice, as a society we protect "choices"
in many areas such as religion and politics.
Sexual
orientation is a complex human behavior that is unlikely to have a
"single cause."
The
evidence is not definitive on the degree to which people are
"hard-wired" by genetics for sexual orientation.
Civil
Unions
Civil
unions do not provide the 1000+ federal benefits of marriage
Civil
unions are not recognized in other states
Implications
of Proposed Amendment
ND
Attorney General Wayne Stenehjem declined to rule on the implications of
the wording of the amendment in Letter Opinion 2004-L-59, dated September
23, 2004 to State Representative Mary Ekstrom.