Viewpoint:
Measure 1 editorial hit the mark by
Robert Uebel Grand Forks Herald, October 20, 2004
FARGO
- Equality North Dakota wishes to thank the Herald for its
editorial opposing Measure 1.
In
particular, we appreciate the editorial board's acknowledgement that
loving, committed same-sex couples are "entitled to equal protection
and equal benefits." Marriage is a basic human right, and we see no
sound public policy reason for continuing to deny same-sex couples that
right.
North
Dakota voters should be clear that existing state law already prohibits
same-sex marriage. Our opponents claim these laws are in imminent danger
of being overturned by "activist judges" here in North Dakota, a
claim the Herald rejected in its editorial. So, why this big rush to amend
our state's most important legal document to ban something that doesn't
even exist?
The
editorial discussed what it calls "two essential elements in a
democratic society: individual rights and the importance of
families." The Herald seemed to be presenting these elements as
somehow in conflict with [respect to] the issue of same-sex marriage. We
respectfully disagree: How could same-sex marriage interfere with the
right of a heterosexual couple to marry and raise a family? Does it make
sense that heterosexual couples will stop marrying if same-sex couples are
granted equal access to civil marriage? Of course, it doesn't.
According
to the 2000 census, there are 703 households in North Dakota headed by a
same-sex couple. Because this figure is based on self-reporting, we have
reason to believe that it underestimates the total number of same-sex
households. Nationally and in North Dakota, approximately one-third of
lesbian couples and one-fifth of gay male couples are raising children.
This yields a figure of about 190 households with children in our state
being headed by a same-sex couple.
Nationally,
it's estimated that at least 1 million children are living in families
headed by a same-sex couple.
Many
national organizations have studied the scientific literature and
concluded that there is no sound, logical basis for restricting parenting
by same-sex couples. Those organizations include the American Academy of
Pediatrics, American Academy of Family Physicians, American Psychological
Association and American Psychiatric Association. Their position is based
on research that shows children raised by same-sex couples are just as
happy, healthy and well-adjusted as children raised by opposite-sex
couples.
The
implications and perhaps unforeseen consequences of the amendment's
wording also are a cause for concern. Our opponents have claimed it does
nothing except restate existing state law - but the second half of the
amendment is much more than a simple definition of marriage. Some analysts
have argued that the second statement would prohibit civil unions and
possibly any other legal protections for same-sex couples, including
domestic partner benefits.
When
asked for a formal opinion on the proposed amendment, North Dakota
Attorney General Wayne Stenehjem said he was unable to determine the exact
meaning of the proposed language or its exact effects. Are we prepared to
amend our constitution without knowing just what this amendment will do
and who it will affect?
For
this and many other reasons, Equality North Dakota urges voters in North
Dakota to reject this unnecessary and unfair amendment to our state
constitution. Constitutions should not be used to deny rights to any group
of citizens. Let's stick instead to our proud tradition in North Dakota
and in our country of using constitutions to expand and protect rights for
all.
Uebel
is chairman of Equality North Dakota, a group that opposes the marriage
amendment.